None of my business.

I can't stress how much I hate getting involved in things I don't care about. 

Here's the situation, I've been friends with this boy for like my entire life because we grew up together. I just found out he was dating someone about a month ago. I didn't care because I've never cared about him in a boyfriend way. His girlfriend started talking to me and we're actually starting to become friends I think. He cheated on her (tons of times) and she's had enough. 

So today, she messaged me and this is our conversation:

Her:"Hey"

Me:"Hey"

"Can I ask you something?"

"Sure."

"He told me he messaged you one night trying to mess around but that you said no. Did he ever tell you he liked you?"

"Yeah, that happened. It was weird. And yeah, he said he liked me and I said I used to have a crush on him too but that we were friends so that would be weird."

"Yeah he said he told you he had a crush on you in the 8th grade. And thanks for being honest."

"You're welcome. And yeah, I'll always be honest. I've got nothing to lose."

Then she ranted and I felt bad because he is a douchebag... And I shared stories about how Ian's kind of a douchebag too and that I really do love him and I would never date her boyfriend anyway because I already know who I want to marry. There's nothing to prove there. I passed up the chance to sleep with her boyfriend because I'm content in my relationship already. 

Then he messaged me and was like "I never said I liked you." And things of that sort.

So I said "I guess I remembered wrong, I clear my texts every week so I don't have them anymore. I'm not trying to cause anything between you guys. I'll message her and clarify if you want."

And he said "Nah. It's whatever. Later."

So not that I actually care but, what the hell am I doing being in your relationship? Like if you're looking for an out, fine, but don't use me. I'm not the problem here. You are. You're the one that tried to cross the line between our friendship and ask me to sleep with you while you're in a relationship. And I'm the bad guy for saying no? I just don't understand why people are so irrational. 

So just to clarify, I'm innocent. I'm still only interested in one boy and it's not her boyfriend.